Thursday, November 8
11:30 a.m. - 1:00 p.m. | T.1400
- Speakers Panel
- Resources & Buttons
- "Proud to be First-Gen" Wall
On this date, which is the 53rd Anniversary of the Higher Education Act, we, along with institutions all around the country, celebrate the presence and the experiences of first-generation college students, faculty, and staff at Minneapolis College.
Below are some profiles of first-generation college students who have attended or are working here at Minneapolis College.
Neither of my parents attended college: my dad is a Vietnam war vet who went into trucking when he got home and my mom worked briefly in retail before she married and had children. Then became a stay at home mom. They stayed in the small town they both grew up in and raised their children there.
I couldn't wait to get out.
There was no question for me, the way for me to get out of small town life was to go to college. I knew it would be hard work but I didn't realize how much it would shape the person I am today.
College not only gave me an education but opportunities to try things I would have never thought I'd enjoy. It helped me be independent and figure who I was as a person. I worked hard to be an example to my children, to teach them that education is important, not just to get to well-paying job but to open your mind and have a greater understanding of our world.
I would tell a new first-gen student that it's going to be hard and you may doubt that you can do it, but you can and you will. Even if no one seems to be supportive or proud of you for what you are doing, keep doing. You have what it takes and you can do it.
My family came to the US during the war in former Yugoslavia, so growing up I only spoke Bosnian but I learned English when I attended school and yes it was hard and still to this day it’s hard.
Being a first-generation student in college is at first confusing (well for me it was) cause I don’t know how it all works because I don’t have anyone that has experienced college so I have to figure it all out myself.
I decided to go to college because why not? I’m the first in my household to go to college and my parents didn’t come to the US for nothing: they came here to give me a better opportunity in life.
I had many fears but I would tell a first year student, take a deep breath and go with the flow, there’s people here to help you, you are not alone there’s many people here like us.
I come from a big family, and I mean BIG family. None of them went to school, let alone college. As a first-gen college student, I had a lot of challenges, I still do. My peers don't seem to understand anything about college and that means I'm not getting the support I need from them. They challenge me often, but that focuses the need for my studies. That’s a brief story about me.
Being a first-generation college student means a lot to me: we came to the United States during the mid-90s poor from Haiti and my parents hardly spoke English at the time. Despite the language barrier and imperfections, they were committed to understanding English enough to teach their children so that we could excel in our studies.
It’s been 24 years and in 2019, their eldest daughter will be the first in the family to obtain a college education here in the United States of America.
There were lots of ups and downs of course: I experienced homelessness for 5 years and during that time I went through a lot. I originally pursued welding but it wasn’t a true calling from the heart. Through the pain and heartaches I learned that those moments didn’t have to permanent. The struggle can be temporary and there is light at the end of the tunnel...even if you don’t see it right away.
For new first-generation students I tell you this: Your academic career will be a long one but it is worth it. Every hour and exam gaining my capabilities continues to be fruitful. There are no words to describe the feelings of accomplishment I’ve had over these past few years.
I hope you get to experience this as well.
It has been awesome to witness this college go from MCTC to Minneapolis College. What I would tell students is don’t give up. It’s so worth it. There is so much to do on and off campus. And you get to meet lifelong friends. Start slow and ease yourself up.
U got this.
Being a first generation college student has been an intellectually challenging experience that I will cherish throughout the rest of my life. Challenging myself every semester has been so rewarding.
I decided to go to college once the resources and time were available for me to focus my undivided attention and utilize every facet available. I would tell a first-generation college student not to give up when classes get stressful, there is light at the end of the tunnel, so to speak.
Lastly, I would encourage students to participate in as many activities and clubs as possible. The lasting relationships and networking will be valuable throughout the rest of their college careers as well as in their respective career fields.
I decided to go to school because I want more: more for my daughter and myself. It has always been a dream of mine to become a doctor and although I know that there is a long journey ahead, I have begun the necessary steps as to following my dreams.
I have goals and it makes me smile to know that I am making progress. I would tell a new first-generation college student that failure is not an option and although you may fail that doesn't make you less of anyone else. No one really talks about failure but in order to succeed you must be willing to fail.
I didn't choose college, it chose me. It was always a part of the plan for my life since grade school but my plans went on a detour after birthing four children in my teen years.
Human Services has been my field of interest for many years and when I was approached with a scholarship opportunity, I thought why not! What's the worst that could happen? I had just lost a son and there's nothing worse than that! My only fear was failing at this age, being a 40-year-old dropout was unacceptable and an embarrassment for the generation behind me.
I would tell all first-generation students what I have learned from many professors as well as students at Minneapolis College is that you are never too old to achieve any goal you put your mind to, and don't stop your educational level unless you have reached the point of satisfaction in your life!
One of the greatest decisions that I made is applying for college after a 30 year gap. Becoming a first-generation college student has opened many doors beyond my highest expectations. On this journey, I have learned more about who I am and what I am capable of. I focused on what was is most important to my parents, which was to get an education.
In March 2015, my place of employment for 20 years shut their doors and relocated out of state. This left me between a rock and a hard place. I could either seek employment as blue collar worker until I retire or pursue an education.
I chose the latter for the reason that I needed a career. What mostly hurt was observing seniors employed in fast food restaurants, standing on their feet for hours flipping hamburgers. I did not want to see myself in that position.
Full of fear, I took the journey, not knowing what to expect. My fear was age, not fitting in with the younger generation, and fear of failing. I applied and became a full time student in the Addiction Counseling program August 2015 here at Minneapolis College. My English 1110 professor insisted that our class apply for TRIO Starting Point. Taking her advice was the second greatest decision on my journey.
TRIO Starting Point and staff have been a guiding light to my academic success. You are and always will be family. I've had the opportunity to meet students and staff of diverse cultures and they have also learned of mine, working together and enhancing our academic skills.
May 2018 I graduated with honors, transferred to Metropolitan State University and am continuing my education to complete my Bachelor’s degree.
As a new first-generation student I would encourage you to ask questions. In each class get a study partner. Build rapport with your professor, they are here to help you. Take advantage of the tutors, and do not wait until a paper is due to ask for help. TRIO Starting Point is a benefit that you have earned by being a first-generation student. Most of all stay focused on your education. Do not let friends distract you from completing what you have started. There will be long nights of studying but do not get discouraged, it's part of learning. If you stick with it, the time goes by fast. Also, remember you have little to no social life as a student. It will pay off. ENJOY THE JOURNEY AND STAY FOCUSED!
I was 17 my first semester in college and totally freaked out. My family was very supportive, but I entered college during a frustrating time when women were restricted from many majors. I wanted to study Architecture, but was told, "the 5% quota of women has been filled. Please apply again next year." Advisers actively discouraged me from math and science.
Women had 3 choices: education, nursing, or interior design, so I picked interior design.
However, interior design was not a good fit, so I struggled my first 2 years and dropped out during my second year. I missed my family and couldn't take the courses I really wanted, so I went home. My family was very supportive and encouraged me to go back, which I did a couple of semesters later, and I majored in education.
I had to work part-time while at school which required me to really focus on school when I was not at work. Juggling work, my homework, studying, and social life was a challenge. My last year in college, I earned a scholarship that allowed me to teach and earn a salary under the supervision of a master teacher while earning my final credits for my teaching degree and license. Although I didn't get paid as much as a fully qualified teacher, and I had to teach and take classes at the same time, that scholarship helped a lot. My family supported me all the way through, and my grandma gave me her old car that last year so I could get to and from the school where I was teaching and not be late for my classes on campus.
Based on that experience, I would encourage first-gen students to develop supportive relationships with teachers and advisers every semester even when feeling shy about doing that. These are the folks who helped me find the scholarship and allowed me to finish my degree. Today, that scholarship would be similar to a paid one-year internship. They are difficult to find, so networking with those who can help is critically important. Teachers are often the most connected in their field to help students find help all along the way. Here at Minneapolis College, our Career Service Center can also play a really big role in helping students begin networking and learn how to build and develop those relationships.
My father was literally born on a dairy farm and my mother barely graduated high school. I was always interested in computers and bought my first one, a Commodore Vic20, with paper route money in spring of 1982. I knew that if I wanted to learn more, I needed to go to college. Coming from a poor working-class family, I decided to join the National Guard to pay my way through school.
I earned a B.S. in Electrical Computer Engineering and went on to get my Masters in Business Administration with a focus on Technology Management. I had a successful 20 year career in research and high performance computing, administering and building supercomputers, ending as a Director at the University of Minnesota Supercomputing Institute. I've been teaching at Minneapolis College for a year now.
I knew nothing about going to college and made many mistakes as a result. My advice to any first-gen student is to find someone in your life who's been through it to talk to, share experiences, understand all that goes on, and, most importantly, to tell you it's going to be hard. Many first-gen students get to the hard parts and think they aren't "good enough" and drop out. The real truth is that college is hard, and is supposed to be hard, and if you know that, you can hang out, buckle down, and get through it.
As the first in my immediate family to attend and then graduate from college, it was exciting and a little scary. You truly "do not know what you do not know." Unfortunately, I did not receive great advice when I started my first year. I took a really tough 5-credit Math class, along with 13 other credits and I worked 20+ hours/week. I didn't do so well my first semester, lost a scholarship, switched majors from Engineering to Business and then worked hard to graduate with a 3.0+ GPA.
I look back at my trials and triumphs and am so thankful for the mentors and guides that I did have in college, those who were able to coach me along my journey. I take pride in serving in a similar way, for Minneapolis College students!
Being a first-generation college student felt like navigating without a compass. Attending college was never a question, it was something my mother expected us to do. I was not afraid, although I knew things were stacked against me, I was confident and determined to succeed.
Being successful require resilience, determination, and hard work. There are many resources available today, be sure to access them.
My parents strongly encouraged college and supported me, and my siblings, as best they could with what they had. They truly motivated me to want to pursue as much higher education as I could attain, to have a brighter future and share it with them.
I had a few siblings that attended college before me, so I was somewhat aware of the overall college life. I was still a little fearful yet excited because I wanted to make my parents proud, follow the footsteps of some of my siblings and be a college athlete, which I did achieve.
I was an honor student and an athlete in high school which also made my experience a little less frightening. Having a strong support system, including my family, church, coaches, teachers, friends, etc. really made a big difference for me and impacted my post-secondary journey, from undergraduate to graduate school.
I'm a proud first-generation college graduate, the first in my family to achieve a master’s and doctorate degree! My advice to current and future first-generation college students is, arm yourselves with a strong support system, be fiercely determined and motivated, and you will achieve the unthinkable!
I was first in my family to go to college. My mom always wanted me to go to college but my parents were farmers and didn’t have any money. I was the oldest of 8 kids. I had no idea how to go to college and no TRIO program to help me. I had seen only two colleges, Macalester College and St. Cloud Nursing School.
I knew I couldn’t afford Macalester and I didn’t want to be a nurse, so I looked at state colleges, and picked St. Cloud State over Mankato State because it was farther away from home. Not the best reason to choose a college!
I started college as an art major and my advisor was an accounting professor who said that I knew more about that art stuff than he did. He was wrong! I really wish I had career advising and could have learned about my strengths, personality, talents, and skills. About the job market, and my values.
I went to college when women mostly went into teaching, social work, nursing, or secretarial. I first heard of the baby bust in my senior year of my teaching major…not the best time to find out that finding a teaching position would be hard.
Thankfully, I had a number of different work experiences and got career advising when I pursued my Masters in Counseling and discovered TRIO and developed a creative professional life assisting others like me with discerning their future through education.
I applied to 3 colleges and decided I would go to the first one to accept me, which is exactly what I did. I had never visited any of the colleges I applied to. My parents drove me to the dorm, helped carry everything to my dorm room and then left. They thought it was great that I was going to college but they had no idea how to help me through it. The first year was very hard as I knew no one at the college.
At that time, there was no career center at the college so I just stumbled along until I graduated. I had many great experiences at college and am glad I did it. My degree has opened many doors for me throughout my career. If you have no support from family, please use all the great resources that are offered here at the college.
These programs exist for you!
Many of us who work here have walked through various barriers to get our degrees and it gives us great satisfaction to see students succeed here and go on in their education.
Being a first-generation college student was exciting and scary. I was told most of my life college wasn't for me, I should just find a job and work. I decided to go to college because I knew I wanted to do more with my life and help people, and college seemed like the right path to that goal. I had many fears, but my biggest fear was people finding out I had no idea what I was doing and that I didn't really belong in college.
Though that fear followed me all the way through graduate school, I never let it stop me.
I would tell first-gen students to use the resources available to them, and not to let their fear paralyze them. There are a lot of us who have been in similar situations, and we want to help.
It felt really great being a first-generation college student and a model for my children. I went to college because I wanted a better future for me and my kids. I wanted to better my future in something I like and something that I can do for the rest of my life. I did not want to work in a company as an assembly worker.
However, along the way when I was in college, I struggled with the fear that I would never finish college - ever. This fear kept going even as I got closer and closer to graduating.
Once graduated, I felt more confident in myself that if I can do this, anyone can.
So, my advice to new first-generation student is that you can do this.
If you get lost and confused, you can always come in to TRIO Starting Point to ask for advice or talk to your TRIO advisor and they will help guide your way. Also, don't be afraid to ask for help, even if it's the dumbest question. That can mean much to others.
Best of Good Luck and you can do this.
I have grown up listening to my parents about the importance of education. As a result, when I got the chance to come to the USA as an international student to pursue higher education, I was very excited and nervous at the same time.
Leaving everything I have known all my life and coming to a new country, language and culture was very scary. I'd tell a first generation student to commit and stick to their commitment to their education. It is inevitable that life will be difficult at times but hard work and perseverance always pays off.
I have started at Minneapolis College, then transferred to Augsburg University for my bachelor's degree. Later, I have received my master's degree from Minnesota State University.
No, life was about growing up, getting a job, and getting out of our parents’ house. College was not talked about in my home and it was the least of my family's priorities when dealing with real life issues like housing, transportation, employment, alcohol and drug use. I always thought college was for rich people, the suburban people.
Then I met my amazing supervisor at Subway, Joseph Brundige and he saw my potential. He said, “Why can’t you finish high school, why can’t you go to college, why not you?” With his encouragement, I realized that I can be the 1st person in my family to go to college and no matter how many life problems blocked my path...I did it!
My advice to future first-generation college students is life lessons and tragedy will always come and go but if you keep getting up, you can finish college.
My dad was a blue-collar, tool & die maker who always wanted to go to college, but marriage, WWII and kids kept him off campuses. His influence motivated me to apply to 3 big national colleges but I ended up going to a small college in Northfield, Minnesota because they gave me the most money. It still cost my parents $200/month to pay for my college after the grants and loans were figured in. Back then, that monthly $200 was a good week's pay. Only now do I realize what a large, financial sacrifice my parents made to send me to college.
I did graduate but didn't find any calling in college other than "I want to travel."
My college experience did end up giving me my first big promotion in the working world. That college required all students to speak a foreign language. I was able to leverage that to transfer to Europe after only working a year at an international photography company. I traveled all over northern Europe while living in Germany.
I wanted to do more than just photography, so I went back to school for a Master's in Journalism. And here I am as a webmaster.
Today would not be possible without my education. It even led me to marry the daughter of a tool & die maker.